First Dates: What To Avoid, In Order To Catch The Attention Of Women. - A Wonderful Guide To Acquire More Information

Let's talk about the subject of attracting women. I often get questions about how to attract women, or the direction to go in order to attract women.

A common concern that guys have is how to steer clear of making those significant mistakes on the first date that prevents ever enjoying a second date or developing a sexual relationship (rather than a friendship).

I'll discuss some of them in this post.

Well, there are certain mistakes a guy can make. Allow me to summarize the most common ones here. The biggest mistakes guys make on first dates are:

1) Speaking about themselves too much. Trying to be interesting instead of interested.

2) Not asking questions and not listening enough.

3) Focusing too much on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.

4) Not employing subtleties enough (What a woman understands)

5) Not creating sexual flow or interest.

6) Not developing future. (A relationship is all about future.)

The first mistake that most guys make is that they start the first date and talk all about themselves, sort of strut around telling the girl that he's got this car, and he's got this career and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that attempting to impress the girl that he is an effective catch.

What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that isn't going to be able to take care of her at all, because he isn't interested in her and doesn't listen to what she has to say. A bad relationship prospect.

One other way of saying it is that guys act as if they are very interesting. They figure they have to be interesting for a girl to be interested in them. Sorry guys, but it fails that way. You have to be interested in the girl, not interesting to get her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It's hilarious! They're both so busy wanting to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be interested in the other.

If you do not know what I am talking about, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is interested in you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she really is, and so on, and all sorts of other interesting things.

Interesting leads to a lot of rejections and "platonic" friendships incidentally. Girls will be friends with a guy who is really interesting. Why? Girls like to be amused and entertained. Interesting men are kind of like children to them. An origin of non-sexual entertainment and pleasure.

That is all we have room to talk about here, but you will get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.

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