Bad Guy Compared To Good Man - Does Attraction Have Anything To Do With Being A Bad Boy Compared To A Nice Guy?

Fine, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" interest women - but I don't think it is essentially true.

At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy versus a nice guy.

I think there are other personality vectors involved that maybe bad boys and nice guys have that are the identifying qualities of attraction.

Bad boys tend to be less shy, but also they are more confident in general than nice guys. I believe that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the fact that a guy is bad.

I personally do not use the "bad boy" approach when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. Nevertheless, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that easily when talking to me. I am a little unapproachable, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how beautiful they are, and most women don't have any idea as to whether I am interested in them or just being nice.

That is what sets me away from a "nice guy". Women see me as a rightful gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - prefer that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.

Girls like guys who are interesting and unique. Attractive girls don't find boys who tell them how beautiful they are to be unique. But a guy who has a pleasant conversation with them without saying a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also remember that women have different characters. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking woman may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how beautiful she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a society of perfect gentlemen, might very well find a guy who talks a little awful and naughty to be interesting and different. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.

You see regardless of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to define who that someone would be and then try to expand how you would meet people like that. So no matter if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a situation where you are interesting and unique to the women you encounter and you will be victorious.

One of the hardest things to learn in life is that no matter what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly compatible with you. Even if you are boring there are women who are absolutely compatible with that. Not every one desires to meet and hook up with the life of the party.

The problem is people who don't admit themselves for who they are, try and act differently and they are not being real, so they don't attract anyone. Now if you just believe in yourself for who you are and act the way you really are, you will find that there are people who will choose you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are dull or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.

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